Women and Attraction
Today let's discuss the matter of women and attraction.
Once upon a time I was just atrocious with women. One think that comes to mind when I think of these times, is that I didn't understand women and I definitely didn't get attraction.
Dudes are attracted to girls based on physical characteristics. We see a really beautiful woman and we get excited under the belt. I actually used to think that women reacted to a good looking guy the same way. That if they see a great looking man, they are interested and excited right away.
Well, turns out I was wrong. Don't get me wrong, ladies like a handsome man and it certainly doesn't hurt if you are doing well in that department. However, something else needs to happen for a woman to have that overwhelming emotion of attraction for a dude. It entails a lot more than good looks.
Things like character, humor, status, style and just being unpredictable matter more to a woman, than you'd ever imagine.
Unexpectedly I realized something else was at stake. Women are more EMOTIONALLY attracted to men than dudes are to women.
This means making her laugh and joking around can be much more effective than just looking good.
Looking good will help you get in the door but being FUNNY and leading the way is what's going to keep her around.
So more than just being funny in a way that's silly. You need to be hilarious in a way that commands high status.
For example you could slip on a bannana peel and smash pies on your face. That's pretty funny, but it is it going to make her feel attraction for you.
You'd be better off saying.
"You're not THAT bad of a person you know."
Why is this funny? Well, if she's a hot woman... . she has never in her life been spoken to like this before. I'm sure of it. So that right there is FUNNY!! Plus, you're giving her a backhanded compliment. It's witty and sarcastic. Also, it comes from a place of high status.
That is important. You're controlling the frame and having fun in YOUR world. Here's a few more examples.
"Those bracelets aren't completely hideous."
"So when are you going to bake me a pie?"
"You're not the worst person I've ever met."
What's going on here? Well from an outside perspective it might seem like you're being a jerk. However, as long as your body language and voice tone come from a commanding and playful place... . YOU'RE JUST HAVING AN AMAZING TIME.
Dont' ever forget that women want to have fun. I used to really suck but then I found this incredible web-site that taught me everything I needed to know about women and attraction.
Women and Attraction
Once upon a time I was just atrocious with women. One think that comes to mind when I think of these times, is that I didn't understand women and I definitely didn't get attraction.
Dudes are attracted to girls based on physical characteristics. We see a really beautiful woman and we get excited under the belt. I actually used to think that women reacted to a good looking guy the same way. That if they see a great looking man, they are interested and excited right away.
Well, turns out I was wrong. Don't get me wrong, ladies like a handsome man and it certainly doesn't hurt if you are doing well in that department. However, something else needs to happen for a woman to have that overwhelming emotion of attraction for a dude. It entails a lot more than good looks.
Things like character, humor, status, style and just being unpredictable matter more to a woman, than you'd ever imagine.
Unexpectedly I realized something else was at stake. Women are more EMOTIONALLY attracted to men than dudes are to women.
This means making her laugh and joking around can be much more effective than just looking good.
Looking good will help you get in the door but being FUNNY and leading the way is what's going to keep her around.
So more than just being funny in a way that's silly. You need to be hilarious in a way that commands high status.
For example you could slip on a bannana peel and smash pies on your face. That's pretty funny, but it is it going to make her feel attraction for you.
You'd be better off saying.
"You're not THAT bad of a person you know."
Why is this funny? Well, if she's a hot woman... . she has never in her life been spoken to like this before. I'm sure of it. So that right there is FUNNY!! Plus, you're giving her a backhanded compliment. It's witty and sarcastic. Also, it comes from a place of high status.
That is important. You're controlling the frame and having fun in YOUR world. Here's a few more examples.
"Those bracelets aren't completely hideous."
"So when are you going to bake me a pie?"
"You're not the worst person I've ever met."
What's going on here? Well from an outside perspective it might seem like you're being a jerk. However, as long as your body language and voice tone come from a commanding and playful place... . YOU'RE JUST HAVING AN AMAZING TIME.
Dont' ever forget that women want to have fun. I used to really suck but then I found this incredible web-site that taught me everything I needed to know about women and attraction.
Women and Attraction